Trying to communicate

Posted by David on Saturday, January 14, 2006 at 1:14 PM.

When we were up in Canada over Chanukah, and people would ask me where I lived, they would always ask me whether I was excited about the Seahawks' record this year. And I would always mumble something about not really following sports at all.

The usual response was that instead of saying "Oh, Ok" and moving on, they would continue to try to talk football with me, as though somehow I wasn't serious, or perhaps lying because I don't like talking to people, or because I was keeping secrets from our perky neighbors to the north. Something like that.

When we got back, I asked Tim (the biggest sports fan I know) what I should say in those situations — how could I give some sort of culturally appropriate response without actually having to know anything?

Tim thought for a moment, and then gave me a magical phrase to use. "Sounds good!" I said, and tucked it away.

This morning on the bus to the gym I got my chance. There were several Seahawks fans on the bus, heading down early to do whatever one does before a football game. They were laughing and talking about previous games and where to eat after the game.

As I got ready to get off the bus, they noticed me and asked "Hey man! You going to the game today? Wooohooo!"

I turned to them and said, smiling, "It's a great time to live in Seattle."

They cheered again and went back to their conversation! It worked! Thanks Tim!


Timothy, on Saturday, January 14, 2006 at 10:09 PM:

Anytime D ..... anytime.


Savannah, on Sunday, January 15, 2006 at 5:26 PM:

Wow. Timothy, are you in public relations? I have rarely seen anything so able-to-be-interpreted-as-the-hearer-wishes, yet so safely content-free. I am sure that Brangelina will soon be calling you to tell them what to say when in Darfur for the UN.


Timothy, on Sunday, January 15, 2006 at 7:50 PM:

Does it pay well? ;-)


Maffy, on Monday, January 16, 2006 at 11:05 AM:

Being completely unaware of the Seahawks (or any other sport team) I made the unfortunate choice to make a "run" to Home Depot on Saturday about 5pm...That's an hour and a half of my life I'll never get back. I was so freaked out with the traffic, I bagged HD, and just turned around (once there was a safe - still illegal, but safe - way to do so) and head back to Queen Anne. Didn't leave my house the rest of the weekend. I'll just have to get pocket schedules for all the teams so that I know when I should and should not leave the house!! :)